infertility

tall women

I didn't want my blog to become stale but lately I haven't been writing much.  I blame myself and Facebook and Instagram and Netflix and a few other life distractions. I am sure in the pre-social media years I got a lot more done. Then again, maybe I didn't and I am just glamourizing the olden days.  Anyway, I am on vacation this week so thought I'd put fingers to my keyboard. 

 

after embryo transfer

At least once a month I have a woman in my office crying because her IVF cycle didn’t work and she believes in her heart that she is to blame. Typically she will say she “did too much after the transfer.” Women are so hard on themselves.

happy 2017

Happy New Year’s Eve 2016!  Now that I have eaten my body weight in chocolate and chips, it’s time to make resolutions.  First, stop eating my body weight in chocolate and chips.  My other resolutions are pretty similar to previous years:

inklings

There are a few main infertlity journals I read: Human Reproduction, Fertility and Sterility (F&S)  and the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism.  It is in these journals the latest fertility research is published, useful topics are reviewed and in F&S they have a section called "Inkings."  This is the section I enjoy the most, honestly.  Inklings are short musings, generally by well respected fertility doctors and scientists.  They write about their "gut feelings" or their pet theories about disease or treatments.

nice embryo, smart kid

I remember a lovely couple whom I helped conceive with IVF once emailed me to ask about their children's intelligence.  The child was 3 or 4 at the time and, according to the parents, exceptionally good at everything.  They believed their daughter was intellectually gifted, among other gifts.  They asked me if she was so special because, as an embryo, she has been selected from a field of many as the "best looking" and "strongest." 

 

good genes

We all have genes in the DNA of our cells. Genes determine our hair colour, eye colour, height, and about 20,000 other things about us including which diseases we will develop.  Over the past decade scientists have figured out the "spelling," or sequence of nucleotides, of every gene in humans.  This project was called the Human Genome Project.  Since this project of sequencing of all human genes was completed, the focus shifted to figuring out which gene mistakes, or mutations (or misspellings), cause which diseases.  

 

ICSI

Lets' talk about intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), pronounced ick-see.  During IVF treatment a woman takes medication to grow multiple eggs at once.  We then extract the eggs and fertilize them.  You can fertilize an egg in one of two ways:

  • Insemination - several thousand sperm are placed in a dish around the egg 
  • Intracytoplastic sperm injection (ICSI) - one sperm is injected into the egg

 

Vacation

I just got back from a family vacation in Nova Scotia. There I gained about 10 lbs, never exercised, and listened to countless funny stories about relatives I've never met. I do the same thing every summer and while it objectively sounds boring, it's actually quite fun. Food is love and the more sugary and buttery the food they serve, the more a maritimer loves you. So visiting old friends and family on vacation meant eating plenty of butter-soaked lobster, ice cream, and potato chips. Again, a lot of fun. Now I have a rich-food hangover and jet lag.

Ectopic Pregnancy

Maybe it's my mother's influcence but I do think things happen in threes. Yes, since my birth, my mother has been warning me that after two relatives die, it's only a matter of time before a third one bites the dust too. After two stubbed toes, two bad hair cuts, two car accidents, two divorces, two failed anything, a third one is inevitable. I am not sure why bad but not good things run in threes, but it's best not to question superstition too much anyway.

 

Good and Bad

Every job has good days and bad days. Today was 90% good and 10% bad. 

A couple brought their 6-month-old daughter from IVF by to meet us, a woman who has been trying to conceive for a few years brought us a gift to say "thanks for trying so hard" for her, a couple who has twins on the way sent a "thank you" note, and a box of chocolates came from another successful couple.